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Kamasutra Positions

2011-01-15T10:47:00.000-08:00

The positions

I - The Charge

II - The Greyhound

III - The Horsewoman

IV - The Prayer

V - The Angelus

VI - The compass

VII - The brace

VIII - The Empress

IX - The Emperor

X - The ladder

XI - The 69

XII - The Chapel

XIII - The Andromaque

XIV - The Bevel

XV - The Stars

XVI - The Altar

XVII - The Throne

XVIII - The Coachman

XIX - The Toga

XX - The Coach

XXI - The Nun s Cunnilingus

XXII - Desir

XXIII - Obsession

XXIV - Lucie s hoof

P.I - Sodome

P.II - Gomorrhe

P.III - Lesbos

P.IV - The Sudden

P.V - Point G

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2008-04-17T04:20:00.000-07:00

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Tantra and Sexual Dysfunctions

2008-04-01T10:31:00.001-07:00

Sexual Dysfunctions are more common than people who are affected by it are aware of.

The tendency, especially around any sexual dysfunction, is to hide problems because you think there is something wrong with you for having them. There is a certain embarrassment or even shame that is connected with sexual dysfunctions. No one would be ashamed to have, for example, a liver or heart dysfunction. One would be sad but not embarrassed and one would immediately ask a professional for help.

The most common sexual dysfunctions that men experience are: loss of desire, erectile dysfunctions, premature ejaculation and impotence. Some women experience: inhibited sexual desire, lack of orgasm, insufficient lubrification and painful intercourse. According to the Journal of the American Medical Association, in 2005 more than 105 million Americans have reported struggling with chronic sexual dysfunctions and many of them were not aware that there is help available. Diabetes can be one of the causes of sexual dysfunctions. Also some prescription medications for depression can have a negative effect on sexual desire.

There are many causes: some of them are related to hormone production, to blocks to the flow of energy, to shallow anxious breathing and unhealthy diet, just to mention a few.

The hormonal production tends to diminish with age, and you could consult a good endocrinologist to check your hormonal production status. There is a lot of information available on the internet. It’s worth learning about it.

There are also products available that are natural, organic, that very safely stimulate the body to increase production of the body’s natural growth hormones.

What you eat and drink is also important. There are certain simple recommendations you might want to observe most of the time: eat your biggest meal between 12 and 2 PM; eat fish vegetables often; keep your stomach light at night; drink lots of water during the day. Drinking a little alcohol can help lower inhibitions, while drinking too much can inhibit sexuality. If you want to learn more, read my article “Tantra and Nutrition” on my web site, http://www.1tantra.com

Breathing shallowly and high in the chest is probably the most important single cause of lack of energy and anxiety during lovemaking. Through the years, we became habituated to breathe shallow breaths, often filling only the higher part of our chest where the lungs are narrow and smaller. The body brings the venous blood to the lungs to be purified and the largest veins are located on the bottom of the lungs. Venous blood contains carbon dioxide and other poisonous gases that need to be exchanged with oxygen and thus transformed into vital arterial blood that nourished and strengthens the body.

To be fully present and energetic lovers, we need to learn to breathe to facilitate this exchange as fully as possible. Tantra teaches different breaths for different purposes. Some of the most used techniques are to increase energy and to retain energy without going over the top.

However, many of the sexual dysfunctions are due to emotional issues, entrenchment into set habits, undelivered communications and resentments that could build a cold wall between couples and unconscious issues coming to the surface. A good Tantric Healer can help you look at those issues with increased energy and guide you to use this powerful Tantric tools to open up blocks and take care of unfinished issues that limit the joy of our lovemaking.

Lots of issues have been repressed and feeling rationalized instead of felt.

When emotions are not expressed, blocks to the flow of energy form along the pathway where erotic energy would otherwise flow to the whole body. When blocks are present your vitality is lower and sex becomes more a “squeeze and burst” event, at best a letting go of tension instead of an exchange to deepen your love for each other.

Some men have trained themselves with techniques to “making her come” the fastest way possible so that they can “come” thus missing the opportunity for emotional connection and really fulfilling lovemaking. This way of having sex gives leaves you with a sense of immediate relief but robs you of the opportunity to use this powerful energy for deep heart connection and nurturing. Thus lovers are depriving themselves of deeper and longer pleasure that could enliven all the cells of the body. Making love could be the greatest way to “make love” grow and to live a longer, happier life..

Deep breathing helps bring emotions to the surface. “E-motion” means energy in motion. When emotions are felt sexual energy can reach higher levels riding higher and wider waives sending into ecstatic lovemaking that is really fulfilling. Sex without emotions leaves people tired, empty and sometimes sad. We instinctively know there is more to it.

Deep breathing is also a key to avoiding anxiety about performance. When your whole body tingles with aliveness and when you hear our lover breathe equally deeply, perhaps even making a sound on each exhalation, you are less prone to thinking about performance and more about riding the waves of pleasure a little longer.

Tantra offers the view that we are spiritual beings having a physical experience and as such we have infinite potential for expressing love. By adding the spiritual dimension into the lovemaking it elevates it to ecstasy and adds opens doors for infinite creativity.

As spiritual beings we have infinite potential available and therefore boredom is no longer a danger.

About The Author
Carla Tara is an internationally-acclaimed teacher of Tantra, who masterfully integrates a variety of tantric approaches with body-oriented psychotherapy. She has studied with Eastern masters Chitrabhanu, Dr. Mishra and Dr. Rajmani, as well as with Western teachers Lori Grace, Margo Anand, and Charles Muir and others. Her background as a yoga teacher, psychotherapist, dancer, and relationship counselor contributes to the strength and creativity of her work as a coach to both individuals and couples.

Her most recent achievement is her new book, “Lessons from a Tantric Tango Dancer,” available NOW at Amazon.com

Erectile dysfunction: top 8 dangerous myths about men have erectile dysfunction, which kills their sexual health

2008-03-24T05:33:00.000-07:00

Myth # 1: "Men with erectile dysfunction and other sexual dysfunction makes men have no desire whatsoever in sex." That's not true, just like women, men's sexual desire levels hormone decreases with age. There may be people who can begin to have sexual problems at the age of 30 years due to the lowering of testosterone levels. For most men, however, occurs usually around age 60. Another main reason is simply that men are no longer able to keep an erection. Even if they can not maintain an erection, the men were still able to have an orgasm and ejaculation. Most men with male sexual dysfunction are still able to produce sperm and procreate. In most cases, these conditions are caused by treatable medical conditions. (See table below for some of the most common causes of erectile dysfunction.)

Psychological Causes of Sexual Dysfunction: (note: the causes are more common among young men.)

Anger toward a partner;

Anxiety;

Depression;

Discord or boredom with a partner

Fear of pregnancy, dependency on another person, or of losing control;

Feelings of detachment sexual activity or his partner, fear of intimacy;

Guilt;

Inhibitions or ignorance about sexual behavior;

The anguish (worry about the performance during the act), and

Previous traumatic sexual experiences (eg, rape, incest, sexual abuse, sexual dysfunction or above).

Physical Causes of Sexual Dysfunction:

Atherosclerosis, diabetes or a blood clot) or surgery on the blood vessels can cause erectile dysfunction

Anomalies in the veins of the penis

Neurologic (nerve) damage caused by prostate surgery, spine disease, diabetes, multiple sclerosis, peripheral nerves, stroke, alcohol and drugs.

Disturbances hormonal

Low energy caused by the disease, fatigue and / or stress

Drugs: antihypertensives, antidepressants, sedatives, cimetidine, digoxin, lithium and antipsychotics

This is just one of many myths that men have about erectily dysfunctions which is really affecting their sexual health. Research has shown that our thoughts affect our actual overall health. For the other 7 myths that affect our sexual health as well as learn about herbal Viagra 5 cent and 9 other 100% natural completely healed. Go to the site in the resource box.

Herbal Viagra: Pleasure-Up your sexual life

2008-03-11T06:22:00.001-07:00

by: Robine Smith

Millions of people around the world are suffering from Erectile Dysfunction (ED) because of various causes. The causes may be physiological or psychological and it has affected the self-esteem of men. There are many pharmacological medicines which are available in the market for the treatment of ED, but demand and interest for herbal treatment is fast growing as it has no side-effects. All these herbal medicines have a great success in the treatment of ED all over the world. Herbal Viagra has added vitality and vigor into the lives of these people.

Men worldwide are using these pills daily and in fact they are amazed by the lower costs of herbal treatments in comparison to some prescription drugs. The efficacy and safety of herbal treatment is established from the earlier time in a right way. It has also been discovered that a 42% of women suffering from loss of sexual desire have bettered their sexual life after having tried a naturist treatment. And in herbal treatments, herbal Viagra is topping the chart.

It is now accepted that Herbal Viagravarieties made of antique natural remedies— which were recently given a scientific background— will increase your control of ejaculation as well as frequency of intercourse. Unlike the common Viagra, which one can obtain only after having been subjected to a medical examination, Herbal Viagra does not require a visit to the doctors. Another important point to specify is the fact that Herbal Viagra products nourish the human organism with various amino acids, vitamins and minerals whose helps in the sexual activity’s optimization have been scientifically proven. Since ages, people across the globe knew one or more than one forms of natural cure for impotency.

The highlight of this natural wonder drug is that it has no side effects. A high percentage of men using pharmacological drugs have accused several secondary effects of all sorts. Herbal Viagra represents a safer alternative from this point of view. These products usually contain natural aphrodisiacs that have proven their efficacy in raising the sexual appetite and VigRx Plus improving the sexual intercourse.

Furthermore, these herbal medicines used for treating ED are much cheaper and has no side effects at all. Its main advantage is the low price in comparison to one of the common drug that is Viagra, and the plus point is that it has the same effective results in treating ED. It is 100% effective. And it is recommended that you should take Herbal Viagra by mouth 1 hour before sexual activity or as directed by your doctor. And do not take Viagra more than once or as prescribed by your doctor. Thus, for a healthier lifestyle, solve your impotency problems with herbal Viagra and VigRx. Enjoy your life with a better performance daily.

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2005 Sex Behaviour by Country Book

2008-02-26T06:24:00.000-08:00

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Introduction
More than 317,000 people from 41
countries took part in the world’s largest
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The research confirmed that Greece is
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Greeks having sex 138 times a year - well
above the global average of 103. Croatia
(134) and Serbia and Montenegro (128)....
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2008-02-25T05:35:00.000-08:00

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2008-02-23T04:43:00.000-08:00

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2008-02-19T14:35:00.000-08:00

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Is it Confidence or Size for a Better Female Orgasm

2008-02-17T17:11:00.000-08:00

Confidence or size - which is more important? I'm sure you've inquired this interrogation before: Energy departments size really matter?

Some women tell yes, while others tell no. The truth is most women will never hold. In fact, it's not a matter of who's right or wrong, but more about personal penchant.

I tell size has little to do with sexual satisfaction; confidence is the key to getting observed by women and performing your best. Today, you will larn all the sexy secrets behind confidence; why it's more important than penis size, how to fake confidence, and how to have sexual confidence even if you're below norm in size.

Acquire ready to larn about the sexiest tool ever: confidence!

Energy departments size matter?

Although most women can't hold if size substances, research uncovered at the Kinney Institute substantiates that most women have unreal prospects.

The Kinsey Institute in In furthers interdisciplinary research in the fields of human grammatical gender, grammatical gender, and reproduction. Recently, they dealt a research on the norm penis size and reason outed the norm penis size to be between 5 1/2 and 6 ins.This moves on to tell that if the norm penis size is merely 5 1/2 - 6 ins, than most women never see sex activity with "Rex Kong." So why all the hoopla for bigger penis size?

What this survey intends is that most women cognise what penis size to anticipate. Perhaps what should be saw is why the norm penis size does not fulfil women. Is it really the size or other factors such as sexual acquirements and techniques? The fact is penis size has little to do with satisfying women, sexual satisfaction come ups from personal confidence. Here's why:

What is confidence?

Confidence is very sexy to women. It is the quality that distinguishes a boy from a adult male. Confidence is an mental attitude of control, self authority, and cool. When a adult male is confident in himself, his abilities, and his public presentation, women no longer look to size for pleasance; they look to acquisition.

"How can I be confident if I'm below norm?"

Just fake it. That's right. If you move confident, you'll begin believing it. It's a simple psyche fast one. Start walking with your head up, shoulders broad, grinning softly and do optic contact with attractive women. Physical structure linguistic communication of confidence conducts people to believe that you are confident.

Your mental attitude is also important. Surveys have crook uped that, if you move as if you're attractive, people will perceive you as attractive. Ever enquire why ugly bozoes thread up with beautiful women? The key is acting confident. Recall this the next clip you see an norm bozo with a hot young lady. Is she with him because of his expressions or is he expressing an mental attitude of confidence?

Why confidence is more important than penis size

Energy departments it really matter if your 5 ins or 7?

The truth is a adult female's vagina before arousal is narrow and shallow. The norm depth of a adult female's vagina is 3 to 4 ins. When your penis moves into her, it expands and deepens to suited. So no matter what your size is, her vagina will suited snugly around it.

Most men believe a vagina is an open infinite. They're wrong. Believe of the vagina as if it were a balloon that is not make fulled with air. The walls, which have the potential to expand and stretch, gently touch ace another. When something is put inside, they cast around to fit the breadth and size; whether it is a penis, finger or sex activity toy. So after all, size doesn't matter!

Perhaps, the real concern men should have is not their penis size, since any will do, but his ability to fulfil a adult female. After all, penis size is just ace of several factors affected in satisfying women. Men should commit their clip and energy to these other factors, beginning with confidence.

How to have personal confidence

As adverted above confidence starts with faking it. Acquisition the physical structure linguistic communication of confidence fast ones yourself into believing you are and women into thought you are utterly attractive. Here are three basic techniques to have women thought you are sexy and confident.

Having a Confident Visual aspect

Number one beliefs are extremely important. Psychological mental tests have crook uped that once a first notion is made, it is very hard for people to change it later on. Since a first notion is a lasting ace, you should always be well groomed everywhere you locomote.

Start with the requisites: hair, nails, and teeth. Even if your press demands assist certain traits will draw you through such as having clean fingernails, groomed hair and white teeth. A adult female appreciates a adult male who can take aid of himself because it exhibits he is confident and values his visual aspect. Regular training techniques such as cleaning and cutting fingernails, styling hair, and whitening teeth should gone a wont for men. Believe it or not, women look at these factors right away.

Manuses

Single women look at a adult male's manuses first to espy a hymeneals lot. If your nails are long or have soil underneath them, she will be turned off right away. Don't worry; you aren't compromising your manhood by having nice manuses, this works to your vantage. Since manuses tell a muckle about a adult male's wonts and modus vivendi; manicured manuses will have her thought you are a successful white collared male who applies his psyche to acquire the vaulting horse. Even if you aren't a white collared bozo, this is the first step to acquire women to believe you are smart, confident, and successful.

Hair

Next, is the hair. Hair unlike manuses doesn't postulate to be neat and perfect; it just has to look titled. Because every adult female is different, there isn't ace specific haircut that will crook her on. Some women love bald men; others love men with long hair. Whatever the odds, a adult male's hair should look titled. A confident adult male cognizes this. If his hair is long, it is done so intentionally; not because he lost several haircut assignments. Also, men going for the "messy look" should separate it from embarrassing bed head. All in all, women should cognise the difference between intentional hair styles and just plain indolence.

Teeth

Finally, the most important behavioral trait confident people demo is smiling. Confident people are happy; they are in control of their lives and are successful. You don't see confident people angry or sad; they are cool and collective. Confident people walk tall, do optic contact when they speak, and grinning. This doesn't intend you have to walk around with a huge grin on your human face; but you should grinning softly at people you come across.

Like wise, you should do your best to unveil a charming grinning; do so by whitening your teeth. There are several over the counter teeth bleaches and bleaches. The most popular are Crest Caucasian Strips; they are clean and easy to utilize.

How to have sexual confidence

Most men believe sexual confidence is more important that personal confidence. For them, if a adult male is sexually confident in bed, then he will demo this confidence in his personality. I differ. Confidence is a state of psyche that is first practiced in your personal life then integrated into your sexual public presentation. Nonetheless, men touch oned with their size enquire:

How can I be confident with my small size?

The reply just as before is fake it. Just as you fake confidence, men can fake penis size. This assists men reach sexual confidence.

Here's how:

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These solutions are rubbed onto the penis before sex activity. They work instantly to advance genital blood flowing. The issue is a harder, longer, stronger hard-on. Other wares work to sensify a adult female's vagina so that your penis experiences incredibly pleasurable to her. They also advance genital blood flowing and do climaxes easier for her to reach. Now, you won't have to worry if your size is adequate to do her screaming.

As adverted before, there are several factors beside penis size necessitated to fulfil a adult female. Men should larn several techniques such as pleasing women orally or with sex activity toys. You can mention my latest article Sexual practice Toys 101 to detect the hot steamy macrocosm of sex activity toys.

Finally, I would wish to remind men how incredibly important and sexy confidence is. Confidence is what acquires you observed. If you aren't observed, you don't exist. How can you delight women if they won't even look at you? Confidence is the key to having her intrigued and wanting to see sex activity with you. There are some excellent ebooks available for instant download that can furnish you with specific workouts and tips to hike up your confidence -- or to fake it when you aren't feeling it.

Put my advice into utilize; work on your confidence today so that you can be the adult male of a adult female's dreams!

Yours Truly , ;)

~ Gabrielle Moore

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Gambir Sarawak the magical cure

2008-02-12T12:01:00.000-08:00

Gambir Sarawak

Here is the secret of oriental technic of healing and increase men sex strenght. Since a few centuries ago, native living in the heart of Borneo tropical forest was manipulating forest plants as a herbs. This very unique herb was widely used for centuries in various parts of South East Asia such as Malaysia, Indonesia, Philipine and Brunei.

We will share with you this amazing product made from secret blend of herbs. The usage of Gambir Sarawak widely known for:

(a) to cure external minor injury
(b) to control ejaculation process
(c) to reduce toothe illness.

GAMBIR SARAWAK

Gambir sarawak adalah sejenis ubat tradisional yang boleh membantu anda menjadi tahan diranjang. ada boleh bertahan sehingga anda penat. antara kebaikannya ialah:1. menyembuhkan kecederaan luaran yang kecil.2. melambatkan proses ejakulasi3. mengurangkan sakit gigi.

CARA MENGGUNAKAN GAMBIR SARAWAK DENGAN BETUL
1. Ambil Sekeping letak di tapak tangan.
2. Letak air secukupnya di atas tapak tangan (Samada air biasa, bagus lagi air liur)
3. Campurkan air dengam gambir dalam 3 - 4 minit
4. Sapukan di bahagian kepala dan bawah zakar (Jangan sapu ke seluruh zakar untuk mengelakkan rasa kebas melampau)
5. Tunggu air gambir kering dalam 15 - 20 minit
6. Basuh batang zakar sebersihnya untuk mengelakkan faraj pasangan terasa kebas yang melampau (Sebaik-baiknya sapukan gambir dalam 30-40 minit sebelum bersetubuh dengan pasangan, Efek sapuan gambir akan terasa dalam 5 - 10 minit selepas air gambir di sapu ke zakar)
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what could you use instead of a dildo

2008-02-10T22:27:00.000-08:00

These are type of dildo available in the market:

Realistic dildo

What does it look like? Traditional dildo has a phallus shape. Realistic dildos are molded from particular men and some are copies of porn star's genitals. Most dildos are made from materials, which resemble skin. Many people value them for their real looks with testes, veins and the like.

What is the purpose? Realistic dildos are meant for various purposes, you may use realistic dildo for anal, vaginal sex or whatever idea may occur to you.

G-spot/prostate

What does it look like? Basically G-spot dildos have a curved end, and some resemble knotty dildos with a wide hollow.

What is the purpose? G-spot dildos are most appealing to those women, who reach orgasm, when a G-spot is involved. This spot is located about three inches in vagina. G-spot dildo is also very pleasurable for prostate stimulation as well.

Double-ended dildo and Double-penetration dildo

What does it look like? Double-ended Dildo is actually two dildos, joined together at the base. Double penetration dildo has two settings, which have a good angle for anal-vaginal penetration at the same time, usually thicker one for vagina and smaller and narrower one for anus.

What is the purpose? Double-ended dildo is created for insertion y by both partners simultaneously. Usually it is associated with lesbian sex, though can be applied in many other positions (doggy style, or sitting face to face) and combinations of hetero and homosexual couples. Double penetration dildo multiplies pleasure for those who wish to feel anal-vaginal orgasms.

Strap-on dildo or Harness dildo

What does it look like? This dildo has a flat base, which is easy to join to a harness. Strap-on dildo is can be attached to thighs, panties or shorts, where a dildo holds at a crotch or pubic bone level. Though may be strapped to a chin or thigh, which allows more various positions. Some strap-ons are not limited in attachment to humans, but to any other object, like furniture, for instance.

What is the purpose? Harness dildo can help you to enjoy sex without using hands, just like your own organ.

Anal dildo

What does it look like? Anal dildo has a corresponding size, streamlined tapering form and a wide base, which prevents sliping or getting it lost inside anus.

What is the purpose? This dildo is designed particularly for anal penetration, to make it smoother and easier. It is known that anus has a lot of nerve endings, which makes anal sex pleasant with a good use of appropriate dildo. Make sure to use lubrication to avoid fissures and injures.

ALL OF ABOVE IS TRADITIONAL DILDOS. AND BELOW IS EXOTIC DILDOS.

nflatable dildos

What does it look like? This dildo get inflated after insertion, and it grows in length and width with a help of hand pump.

What is the purpose? This dildo gives a feeling of total fullness inside the orifices.

Ejaculating dildos

What does it look like? These dildos are provided with a bulb or other soft reservoir, which holds water or water-based lubricant. When you press on the bulb it ejaculates the liquid through the head of a dildo.

What is the purpose? Ejaculating dildo creates a feeling of a real thing that makes many pleasure-lovers go ecstatic.

Penis extenders

What does it look like? These are hollow dildos, which have space for penis.

What is the purpose? Some men, who experience difficulties with maintaining or retaining erection can make use of penis extender dildos.

Light-up dildo

What does it look like? Light-up dildos come with a variety of colors and are provided with an inside device which lightens or glows in the dark.

What is the purpose? You won't lose this dildo- it will radiate and make sex with your toy festive-like.

Other dildos

What does it look like? These types of dildos fall within a category of a non-phallus shape. It may resemble small creatures (dolphins), vegetables (cucumber, banana) and other fancy things.

What is the purpose? Dildos of this kind are whimsical devices for any purpose. Basically, these dildos are meant for making pleasure experience more and more unusual.

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Herba untuk lelaki

2008-02-10T10:33:00.001-08:00

Formulasi herba untuk masalah seksual lelaki

Horny Goat Weed (Epimedium sagitatum), sejenis rumpai air, boleh membantu meningkatkan tenaga seks lelaki, selain memperbaiki masalah mati pucuk. Ia mempunyai kesan kepada testosteron, iaitu merangsang penghasilan sperma dan saraf deria.

Gingko (Gingko Biloba) membantu mengendurkan salur darah agar aliran darah dapat ditingkatkan bagi meningkatkan kebolehan mencapai dan mengekalkan ereksi ketika menerima rangsangan seksual.

Ginseng (Panax ginseng) pula menggalakkan aliran darah ke organ pembiakan dan meningkatkan tenaga.

Puncture Vine (Tribulus terrestris) memerbaiki mati pucuk dan ketidaksuburan, merangsang pengeluaran hormon dan meningkatkan tenaga seks lelaki.

Muira Puma (Liriosma ovata) pula berfungsi membantu mengekalkan ereksi.

Withania (Withania somnifera) baik untuk fungsi saraf yang sihat, sekligus membantu mengatasi mati pucuk akibat kelesuan. Ia juga meningkatkan tenaga seks dan bertindak sebagai tonik untuk melawan tekaan.

Damiana (Turnera diffusa) ialah tonik seksual yang membantu meningkatkan kepekaan dan merangsangkan kepuasan seksual.

Formulasi herba yang mengabungkan tujuh jenis herba ini adalah baik untuk diambil setiap hari bagi membantu mengekalkan prestasi kesihatan seksual yang memuaskan.

Selain pengambilan herba yang khusus untuk mengatasi masalah seksual, gaya hidup sihat juga memainkan peranan penting. Adalah penting supaya individu yang terbabit dengan masalah seksual, terutama akibat tekanan atau keletihan, memikirkan cara yang bersesuaian dan berkesan bagi mengatasi permasalahan ini.

Tinggalkan tekanan di tempat kerja dan jangan difikirkan mengenainya apabila pulang ke rumah. Tumpuan pada suasana di rumah yang lebih menceriakan di mana adanya anak dan isteri untuk bersenda gurau dan berbual.

Sikap terhadap pasangan juga penting. Elemen seperti gurauan, suasana bilik tidur yang romantis, aktiviti bercumbuan sebelum dan selepas melakukan hubungan serta sikap berterus terang dengan pasangan, boleh membantu mengatasi dan meningkatkan prestasi seksual.

Hargai pasangan dan terima dirinya dan diri anda seadanya. Adalah juga digalakkan untuk pasangan suami isteri itu meluangkan waktu untuk berdua-duaan tanpa gangguan anak bagi merapatkan kembali hubungan mereka.

Oral sex can cause throat cancer -- AWAS!!!

2008-02-09T19:21:00.000-08:00

People who have had more than five oral-sex partners in their lifetime are 250% more likely to have throat cancer than those who do not have oral sex, a new study suggests.

The researchers believe this is because oral sex may transmit human papillomavirus (HPV), the virus implicated in the majority of cervical cancers.

The new findings should encourage people to consistently use condoms during oral sex as this could protect against HPV, the team says. Other experts say that the results provide more reason for men to receive the new HPV vaccine.

Maura Gillison at Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health in Baltimore, Maryland, US, and colleagues collected blood and saliva samples from the throats of 100 patients diagnosed with cancers of the tonsils or back of the throat. The scientists also took samples from 200 healthy people for comparison.

By combining the blood and saliva samples with antibody molecules, Gillison's team could tell whether a person had ever had an HPV infection.
Cancer traps

All of the study participants provided information about their sexual history, including the number of people with whom they had engaged in oral sex.

After controlling for other risk factors for throat cancer, such as drinking and smoking, the analysis revealed that people who had prior infection with HPV were 32 times as likely to have this cancer as those with no evidence of ever having the virus. And those who tested positive for a particularly aggressive strain of the virus, called HPV-16, were 58 times more likely to have throat cancer.

By comparison, either smoking or drinking increases the risk of such cancer by about threefold.

The throat cancers analysed in the new study mostly started in the "crypts" of the throat – the grooves at the base of the tonsils. This might be because the tonsil grooves trap infectious particles, suggests Mark Stoler of the University of Virginia in Charlottesville, US, who was not involved in the study.
High risk levels

The study also revealed a link between oral sex and throat cancer caused by HPV. People who had one to five oral-sex partners in their lifetime had approximately a doubled risk of throat cancer compared with those who never engaged in this activity - and those with more than five oral-sex partners had a 250% increased risk.

There was an even stronger link between oral sex and throat cancers clearly caused by HPV-16 (those tumours that tested positive for the strain). People with more than five oral sex partners had a 750% increased risk of these HPV-16-caused cancers.

"This study is important because it is putting all of the pieces together," says Gillison. "We need to add oral HPV infection to the list of risks for oral cancer," she adds.
Virus vaccine

A vaccine against several of the most aggressive strains of HPV linked to cervical cancer received approval from the US Food and Drug Administration in 2006. However the plan to vaccinate adolescent girls with this vaccine developed by Merck, called Gardasil, has received some criticism.

There have been no studies investigating whether the vaccine can also protect against throat cancer, but the new evidence linking HPV to throat cancer could lead to broader vaccination with Gardasil. "We will see a push for vaccination in men," says Stoler, who has been involved in the development of the vaccine.

Tonsil and throat cancers affect about two in every 100,000 adults in the US. The new results could promote the development of spit tests for HPV infection to help identify people at high risk for these cancers, researchers say.

Journal reference: New England Journal of Medicine (vol 356, p 1944)

Modern Kamasutra Positions

2008-02-06T09:59:00.000-08:00

Tantric sex and the Ajna Chakra

2008-02-04T18:14:00.000-08:00

Tantric sex comes from the ancient Indian practice of Tantra. For thousands of years Buddhist and Yogic practitioners have used tantric sex to enter alternate mind states and reach infinite bliss. It also helps to control orgasm and make sex last longer, conveniently. Though tantric sex has many facets, here we focus on the technique that's most useful in orgasm control: Ajna Chakra Focus. The ajna chakra is an energy point located in the forehead, between the eyes. When you focus on this point, physically and mentally, orgasm will be delayed and sex will last longer. If you have not read the first few orgasm control sections, do so now.

We begin with finding ajna and gently pulling your eyes towards it:

* Exercise 9: Pull your eyes to ajna

Relax your entire body. Allow urself to breathe freely and deeply. Spend a few moments relaxing and clearing all outside thoughts from your mind. When you read the words 'close your eyes' at the end of this exercise, do the following:
imagine two paths leading from your eyes, coming inside your head. Imagine these two paths meet at a central point, two inches behind and an inch above your eyes. Imagine this point existing in the centre of your mind.
Very gently use your eye muscles to physically pull your eyes inwards and upwards towards this centre point. Its not so much a movement as a pressure. Don't overstrain it but hold your eyes in this position for a few moments. Close your eyes.

This centre point between and behind your eyes is your ajna chakra, sometimes referred to as the 3rd eye or inner eye. Physically pulling your eyes towards it is the first step in ajna focus. The second step is the use of meditation on the same point. Here's one example of ajna meditation:

* Exercise 10a: Ajna energy meditation

Relax your entire body. Close your eyes and take deep slow breaths. As you inhale, imagine every part of your body filling with energy. Every limb, every organ, every muscle, increasingly becoming more and more saturated with energy on each inhale. Feel yourself in control of the energy, and get ready to release it.
On the next inhale, imagine all the energy contained in your body being channelled upwards, up thru hundreds of paths from every point on your body. The paths feed up from your legs, arms, torso and shoulders, up through your neck into your head. As you do this, close your eyes and pull them inwards as described in exercise 9. As the streams of energy converge inside your head, imagine every path being channelled thru a single point: your ajna chakra.
As you exhale, imagine hundreds of energy streams bursting forth to the outside world through that single tiny point. Keep your eyes pulled inwards and upwards, as if trying to press on your ajna chakra, intensifying the release.
Repeat as often as you like, drawing energy upwards on each inhale, and releasing it through ajna on each exhale. If your eyes feel sore at any time stop and rest.

At some point during meditation you may feel a tingle or shiver around your back or shoulders. The tingle is a positive feeling and will help with ajna focus - if you get it, think about what caused it and try to make it happen again.

It's exactly the same feeling tingle feeling you get down the back of your neck, down your back and shoulders when you listen to a really, really good piece of music, or when you go from a warm room to a cold room. I don't know what it is exactly, or what causes it.
With practice you will be able to 'send' this tingle down your back. The best time to try it is during the exhale in exercise 10a. Consider the tingle or shiver moving down your back as part of the energy release. Here's another example of ajna meditation:

* Exercise 10b: Ajna void meditation

Again relax your entire body, close your eyes and breathe freely and deeply. Focus your mind on your ajna chakra. Imagine ajna as the smallest possible point, so tiny it can only be imagined and not seen. Imagine there exists all around it total emptiness: vast, empty blackness stretching out forever. Nothing else exists, only the infinitesimal point of ajna at the centre of an infinitely large void.
Meditate only on this point and the huge void around it. Think of nothing else.
Imagine any stray thoughts that enter your mind instantly dissolving into the gigantic black void. Any words, sounds, images or other thoughts that appear vanish into nothing immediately. Concentrate only on ajna, a tiny point at the centre of an infinite universe of black, empty space.

Spend as much time meditating on these techniques as you see fit. During masturbation or sex use the combination of physical and meditation exercises to hold off orgasm. Try it first with masturbation:

* Exercise 11: Ajna focus during masturbation

Begin masturbating as normal. Before you reach orgasm, close your eyes and gently pull them inwards and upwards towards your ajna chakra as described in exercise 9. Keep masturbating. As you get close to orgasm, use either one of the ajna meditations, 10a or 10b.
You may feel a sense of inner strength or confidence. If you get this sensation, concentrate on it and relish it. Visualise that feeling of inner power, and let your body feed off it. Let ajna focus lead you away from orgasm. If you do get too close, use the inner strength sensation to reverse the approach. Practice this for as long as you want.

Once you become familiar with ajna focus during masturbation and have used it to take yourself away from orgasm, move onto using it with sex:

* Exercise 12: Ajna focus during sex

When you have sex, the 'inner power' feeling is very accessible. Close your eyes during sex and gently pull them towards ajna. Relax your entire body and focus on one of the ajna meditations. Give yourself plenty of time to try this out - don't go too fast at first. The more time you spend avoiding orgasm, the more time you hav learning to avoid it. As sex keeps going, immerse yourself deeper and deeper in meditation. Forget the outside world. Forget your worries, your problems, forget the events of the day. Forget you have a body. Forget your partner has a body. Meditate on a single concept - that now there is but one entity: ajna.

Once you're happy with ajna focus, use it together with the other techniques, slow breathing and stopping if you need it. You can if you wish alter the above meditations to suit yourself or invent your own. Other examples of common meditations would be focusing on an imaginary candle flame or a golden sun at the point of the ajna chakra.
Its likely that using any type of calm, relaxing meditation during sex will help hold off orgasm. Meditation is known to reduce heart rate, blood pressure and stress. Having an orgasm is associated with the opposite - high heart rate, high blood pressure and high stress. These functions are normally considered to be involuntary, that is they cannot be controlled directly like the biceps muscle in the arm. This is the power of meditation - the ability to alter physical body functions that weren't designed to be altered directly. Meditation slows your nervous system while still allowing you to maintain an erection and keep having sex as slow or as fast as you want. Think about when you wake up with a morning erection: you have just emerged from the most relaxed state possible - sleep - yet you still had an erection.

For some as yet unexplained reason, ajna focus also helps to hold off a sneeze. I don't know why but when you have a sneeze coming, if you use ajna focus and hold your breath then you can hold it off. There is even a presneeze feeling the same as a pregasm. It comes 2 to 3 seconds before the sneeze so you know when to go straight into ajna focus. Who was it that said orgasm is like a sneeze??

Sex Tips for Orgasm Control

2008-02-04T17:13:00.000-08:00

Position

Being underneath makes orgasm control easier
During sex, if your partner is on top and you are underneath, orgasm control will be a little easier. When first putting moc techniques into practice, have sex with your partner on top. Later you can go on top when you have gained confidence. Why is control harder on top? The weight of your body presses down thru your penis, making sex more pleasurable but making orgasm control a little harder. So, get underneath when learning a new technique or if you are having trouble controlling orgasm. Being on top also means the rest of your body is in tension, holding urself up or moving around. More muscle tension increases pleasure but makes orgasm control slightly harder so...

Body Relaxation

Relax your legs and cheeks to help control orgasm
The pc is the main muscle to relax during sex, but tension in your thighs and bum cheeks will also have an effect. Tensing these muscles will increase pleasure but also bring orgasm that little bit quicker. Test this out yourself by masturbating with your bum and leg muscles tightened and your legs straight out. Then try masturbating with all those muscles relaxed. Relaxing will give you less pleasure but help you hold off orgasm. So, to help orgasm control, relax these muscles.

X-position

Lie diagonally across your partner to reduce pressure
When you are on top, you can reduce the pressure on your penis by lying across your partner so that your bodies make an X shape. Let your upper body rest down on the bed to your partner's side, and your knees rest on the opposite side. One of your legs should rest between your partner's legs, and the other on the outside. This reduces the weight acting down thru your penis and eases the tension in your body.

Sex without orgasm

Don't orgasm during sex
You may be used to having sex that always finishes with orgasm. To help your control of orgasm get out of this frame of thinking. Have orgasms during masturbation or outside of sex. This helps your body separate sex from orgasm. Then when you have sex, you and your body won't automatically expect an orgasm. Thinking about orgasm, thinking about how and when it will happen will actually bring it quicker. If you think orgasm, you will orgasm. Be content with knowing you'll have an orgasm later by masturbating or some way outside of sex. Then try to finish sexplay without having an orgasm. Do this on a number of occasions, especially when learning new techniques. Once you can separate sex from orgasm, control becomes easier. This is not to say you should never orgasm during sex - do whatever you want - simply that having sex without orgasm helps with learning orgasm control.

Wear a condom, even without orgasm
Always wear a condom during sex even if you plan on not having an orgasm. Bodily fluid can enter your penis thru your meatus (the hole at the top of your penis) as soon as intercourse begins, leaving you open to STDs. your partner is also at risk if a condom is not used because semen can leave the penis before orgasm or ejaculation, whether or not you plan on having an orgasm.

Empty bladder before sex

Before you have sex, go to the toilet and empty your bladder of urine to help control orgasm. your bladder is located right beside your prostate gland, which triggers ejaculation. If your bladder is full, it presses onto your prostate, making orgasm more likely and control harder.

Ujjayi Breathing

To add to slow breathing there is an ancient technique from yoga called ujjayi breathing. It's similar to nose breathing but slower and more calming.

* Exercise 13: Ujjayi Breathing

Open your mouth and breathe out through it. While you do so, make a 'h' sound. you should feel the sound coming from the back of your mouth. Now close your mouth and breathe out through your nose but still make the same 'h' sound. The sound should still originate in your throat. Now make the same sound while inhaling.

Use this type of breathing during sex. By making the 'h' sound your glottis (base of the throat) partially closes over, narrowing the passage of air flow to your lungs - forcing slower, deeper breaths, helping you control orgasm by calming your nervous system.

Confidence

If you fear orgasm, you will orgasm. Fear will build panic; panic will bring orgasm. If you worry about losing control of orgasm, the worry will bring orgasm quicker. Tell yourself from this point forward you will never lose control because at the very last you always have the security of the stop at pregasm. Go into sex with confidence and belief. If you believe you can control orgasm, you will control orgasm. Using the other techniques and tips will give you confidence - once you have sex a few times without orgasm, knowing you can control it will give you the confidence to do it again.

Experiment

The techniques given in this chapter are not rules but suggestions to help you keep control of orgasm. If you don't like the idea of not orgasming, then just go ahead and orgasm. Experiment with your own ideas. If you find some other way of controlling orgasm, use it. And then tell us about it or offer the info to other people. Above all though be aware of what your partner wants - sex for a long time may not be desirable.

G-spot and Female Sexual Response

2008-02-03T02:48:00.000-08:00

by: Gabrielle Moore

This article will teach you all about how women respond to sexual situations and some topics about the G-Spot. A part where you can stimulate it to give your partner quicker orgasm.

Female Sexual Response

The famous sex researchers, William Masters and Virginia Johnson, were the first to outline the four stages of sexual response in human beings. These stages apply to both men and women, but each gender experiences the stages differently. Men typically race through the stages faster than women do, but that's only on average.

In some situations, women may be ready for orgasm much faster than a man. We'll look at each of the stages as they occur in women and we'll tell you what signs to watch for so you'll be able to determine when your partner is ready for the next stage.

Stage 1 – Excitement

* This is one of the easiest stages to reach for both men and women. A woman can become excited just by smelling your cologne or having your hand brush against her breasts. She can become excited by fantasizing about sexual encounters or by flirting with you during dinner. In fact, during the average date, women may become excited ten to fifteen times. Most of those times do not lead to the next level, however.

* The female body responds to this stage in very specific ways. Let's go through some of those physical signs of excitement:

* Her nipples become erect

* Her vagina starts becoming lubricated

* Her clitoris begins to swell and grow larger

* The inner parts of her vagina begin to expand

* Her breasts may even increase in size if she becomes highly aroused

* These are not the only physical signs, but these are probably the ones you or her may notice. Notice that during this early stage, her vagina is already becoming lubricated. Many men have the mistaken notion that this is a sign that a woman is ready to engage in intercourse. That is not the case. A lubricated vagina only means a woman is aroused. All of these signs do suggest, however, that her body is preparing for the possibility of sex.

Stage 2 – Plateau

* This second stage does not occur as frequently as the arousal or excitement stage. In fact, most incidents of arousal never reach this level. So when does a woman reach this level? Well, she will require more physical stimulation. Foreplay, for example, will help her move to this stage, so does increased fantasizing.

During this stage, sexual tension inside her body is growing.

* This stage is also accompanied by more physical signs. A few of those signs are listed below:

* Breasts may increase noticeably in size

* The vagina swells and the vaginal opening begins to narrow

* The clitoris becomes more erect

* Her heart beat may increase noticeably

* The color of the labia minora will change from pink to either red or wine-color

* This final physical sign is very important. Researchers have found that if the color-change does not occur, then women rarely have an orgasm.

* About one-half to three-fourths of women also experience what is termed a “sex flush” on parts of their body. The increased blood flow to the skin sometimes gives the appearance of a flush over the chest or other parts of the body.

* During the plateau stage, the woman's body is becoming ready for intercourse. Only near the end of this stage is she physically ready for vaginal intercourse.

Stage 3 – Orgasm

This is not a real orgasm but it something like this.

* All of those women who fake their orgasms end up continually jumping from the second to the fourth stage of sexual response. After her body is truly ready for intercourse and if she is receiving the proper stimulation – usually clitoral – then it does not take long for her to reach the third stage.

* Below are some of the physical effects your partner will experience during this stage. Some of these should be noticeable by you and a couple are impossible for her to fake, so if you really want to know whether you are making her climax or not you just need to pay attention to the physical signs.

* Muscle contractions – Intense muscle contractions through the pelvic area will occur during the orgasm. A woman can have three to fifteen of these contractions depending on the strength of her orgasm. She may also experience muscle contractions in other parts of the body as well.

* Most women's bodies become temporarily rigid at the highest point of their orgasm. This lasts for only a moment, but its something you may notice.

* The “sex flush” is another indicator of orgasm. At this stage, it becomes brighter and more noticeable. It may also have spread to other areas of her body.

* Another tell-tale sign of orgasm in some women is ejaculation. Some women do ejaculate after an orgasm.

* Although you won't be able to see this, an orgasm can be detected by looking at a woman's brain wave patterns. There is a clear difference.

Stage 4 – Resolution

* This is an interesting stage because what happens during it depends on what did not happen before or what is continuing to happen. For example, if a woman does successfully complete the third stage then she may be able to have multiple orgasms.

We'll talk about that more a little later in this article.

* If a woman does not have an orgasm, then her body will begin to return to normal but it will take longer. Many women report physical discomfort in the pelvic area during this process.

* You should also keep in mind that after an orgasm a woman's breasts and nipples will be incredibly sensitive. In fact, they can be so sensitive that touching them is uncomfortable for her.

* After the last orgasm, the “sex flush” will disappear. * Also, your partner may experience heavy sweating, rapid heart beating, and/or heavy breathing.

* The resolution stage marks the end of the cycle for women.

* Multiple Orgasms & Sexual Response Cycle

* Multiple orgasms do happen in women. In fact, they are more common than researchers initially believed. Any time a woman has an orgasm she is capable of having a repeat if the right stimulation continues.

* What's interesting about multiple orgasms in women is that they do not have to repeat the entire cycle to gain another orgasm. Once they are in the area between the third and fourth stages, their bodies are highly orgasmic.

About The Author
Gabrielle Moore is co-author of The G Spot Code, a site to help men please their female partners with a G Spot Orgasm. Download your FREE Report from: http://www.femaleorgasmrevealed.com/femaleorgasm/

The art of Sundalism

2008-02-03T02:10:00.000-08:00

In this beautiful world, there are very type of "ism" and "art" things. One of the famous of it is Kamasutra arts. Kamasutra is an art of making love. Sundalism is a view study of how somebody become a stupid freakin' person that want to be servant of sex.